When your cat has passed away, you’re dealing not only with sadness but also with questions about what comes next. This guide will walk you gently through the next steps—and how you can find a respectful memorial for your cat.
1. Allow yourself time
Losing a pet is very hard. Take a moment to just sit with your feelings, remember your cat, hold their favourite blanket or toy. This pause matters. One caring guide explains that “handling the final arrangements is not just logistics—it’s a final act of love.”
2. Decide on what happens to your cat’s remains
You’ll need to choose what to do with your cat’s remains. The main options include:
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Cremation: Many people select this. You might receive an urn with your cat’s ashes.
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Burial: If permitted in your area, some choose burial in a garden or pet cemetery.
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Memorial / keepsake only: Even if you don’t keep the physical remains, many choose a memorial piece—a keepsake, urn, or plaque—to honour their cat.
When you make your choice, consider your home space, budget, and your emotional preferences.
3. Select a memorial item
Once you’ve decided on after-care, you can choose the memorial item. At Tillopets, we specialise in ceramic urns for cats, and we offer free worldwide shipping from Vancouver.
Here’s how to pick:
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Think about size: Do you want a full urn or a smaller keepsake?
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Think about the placement: On a shelf, bedside, in a garden corner?
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Think about personalization: Your cat’s name, photo, paw-print, message.
Your choice becomes a meaningful tribute and helps you remember your cat in a gentle, respectful way.
4. Create a memory space
A small spot in your home (or garden) that’s dedicated to your cat can bring comfort. Put the memorial piece there, maybe add a photo, a favourite toy, or soft lighting. This space becomes the place you visit when you feel like remembering, reflecting or simply being quiet.
5. Grief & healing
Grief is not linear. One day you may feel okay, another day you might feel very sad. It’s normal. Talk to friends or pet-loss support groups if you need. Writing down your memories, drawing, or creating a small scrapbook can help too. What you’re doing by choosing a memorial is part of the healing process—it shows you cared and you’re honouring your cat’s life.
Final thoughts
There’s no “right” way to say goodbye to your cat. What matters most is doing what feels right for you, in your space, in your life. At Tillopets (from Vancouver, Canada) we are here to help you pick a memorial that honours your cat, and we make sure that wherever you are in the world, free worldwide shipping is available. Your cat was part of your family—your memorial choice is part of keeping their memory alive.